This is the weirdest thing. I went back to my "responses" to find the name of your story where I got the idea.

My recollection was that the words trauma and obligation were two of your tags for your story Give This Woman a Cigarette Version 1.

I also recall telling you in my response that I was going to use the idea and you told me it was okay as long as I forwarded a draft, I asked for your email address and that was the end of it. I never even checked back to see if you responded, just thought I would give you credit for the idea of my title and the theme.

So, went I went back to look, there was no such thread. It's either a prank (0r encouragement to get this story off my chest --it's a lot less fictional than you might imagine) from my late husband OR I'm finally losing it. Do you remember any such conversation?