If I've helped you, then good.

Sorry to hear about your step-mother. The universe sometimes heaps shit upon us, even when we are in a weakened state.

I've learned though, that we have to wait and see what the answers are. A tidy puzzle in the end, but it's in 3-D and inexplicable.

I ask for signs from my 1st husband to understand. He always gives me what I ask for. Not too much hoo-doo with this. I'm not religious, God is a strange concept to me but love seems to transcend the borders of this world and all others.

So, be patient and be gentle with yourself. Do what you can as you can and when you can. Everything else can wait.

msgekko@gmail.com anytime you need an ear. I'll always send a reply but can't promise perfection, just a few more years of practice at being a human being in a world hell bent on making sure I learn a thing or two.