Erika- I hear you, every sentence. My step-daughter is in recovery. Almost 8 years now. Things were as low as they could go for three. 12 step program. Sober living. Not living with us. Those have been the biggest stepping stones towards recovery for her.

She decided to get clean. No relapses. I have no idea how she is so strong. I hope your daughter finds what works for her. Recovery is possible.